Whether you’ve found a partner worthy of sharing your bed or are still searching for one, you can find a lot of value in using sex toys. They’re a foolproof way of improving and spicing up your sex life.
Oftentimes, people shy away from experimenting as sex toy prices can really put a damper on one’s libido. But it doesn’t have to be like that, not while your home is full of potential sex aids.
Before you go jumping on every household item, though, make sure it’s safe and clean. Use condoms where possible, and wash every prospective toy before and after the action. Also, make sure those items can’t cut or otherwise harm you.
Here are some of the readily-available sex toys you can try right away.
A pearl necklace can be a fine addition to your sex life. Make sure it’s clean before you take it to bed with you by washing it with lukewarm water and mild dish soap. You don’t want to submerge it if you ever plan on wearing it again — it could weaken the silk thread.
Wrap the necklace around your partner’s stiff member. Neither you nor your partner need to worry — you can’t go wrong. Jerking off your partner with pearls in hand provides a unique sensation, unlike other masturbation aids.
Play with the pearls, move them up and down, and don’t be reluctant to include your mouth.
Temperature play is a fun technique of arousing your partner and building anticipation. Control the sexual tension with a couple of ice cubes and your partner will lose their mind.
You can run the ice cubes along your partner’s lips, nipples, earlobes, inner thighs, and even the spine. Let your partner warm up again before sending another wave of shivers down their body with a well-placed ice cube.
To take the ecstasy to a whole new level, put an ice cube in your mouth, and perform an oral of a lifetime on your partner. Ice allows you to stave off an orgasm, slowly building up an even more powerful one.
While ice is sexy as hell, you shouldn’t use it straight out of the freezer. There are few things worse than frostbitten genitalia, and that’s exactly what you’ll get if you don’t let the ice thaw for at least five minutes.
It should go without saying, but don’t insert ice cubes into your partner. It could harm the sensitive inner linings, especially inside the anus. If you want a penetrating temperature play, let your favorite sex toy sit in the fridge for a while.
If you prefer eating your Chinese food with chopsticks instead of regular cutlery, you have a sex toy you didn’t even know about.
Grab a pair of rubber bands and use your chopsticks as nipple clamps. You can do this with a partner if they feel comfortable, but it’s something you can toy around with on your own as well. It’s a heavenly sensation that any pair of aroused nipples can appreciate.
The same goes for your vagina’s outer labia. Band your lower lips together with chopsticks and you won’t regret it. Remember, wooden chopsticks might splinter, so do a check before you take them to bed.
And, of course, make sure they’re sparkling clean before actually bringing them anywhere near your intimate parts.
It’s all about apps nowadays, and it seems they’ve squirmed their way into the bedroom.
Head out to Google Play Store or App Store to turn your regular old Android or iPhone into a squirting machine. Speaking of which, the best precaution to take before sexing up your smartphone is putting a condom on it. Otherwise, you might need a replacement phone soon enough.
Download an app such as Women Feel Love, Vibration App, Massager Vibration App, Extreme Vibration, or iVibe. All that’s left is to enjoy the ride. It’s the perfect sex toy for when you’re by yourself and feeling kinky.
Ties or Stockings
Just like chopsticks, ties and stockings can bring a small measure of soft BDSM to your sex life.
Tie your partner to the bedpost or use stockings as a mouth gag. It’s the perfect way to spice up your sex life without buying actual bondage sex toys, which can get expensive.
It’s even better if you’ve got some silk ties around — the feeling of silk on the skin enhances arousal.
Make sure you’ve got a pair of scissors on hand, just in case. Also, learning how to tie some basic safe knots is a plus — you don’t want to cut off circulation.
Fruits and Vegetables
The tastiest homemade sex toys around, fruits and vegetables are a great asset to any sexual activity. Couples can have plenty of fun with food in bed, but it’s best suited for solo adventurers.
Bananas and cucumbers are easily the champions of masturbation. If you want to insert them inside yourself, make sure you wash them down first and use a condom. This goes double for bananas which can more easily break off while they’re in your private parts.
For a night of anal play, you’d do well to remember that fruits and vegetables don’t have flared bases. Don’t go too deep or an evening of fun will be cut short real fast.
3D Printed Dildo
Who would’ve thought that one of the most prevalent applications of 3D printing technology would be dildo-making?
It is what it is, which is why we can design sex toys digitally and then have them printed. You can make it any size or shape you want — go crazy. 3D printed toys do require some polishing before they’re ready to go. Otherwise, you can get a cut where you least want it.
3D printing can do more than help you rub one off. Starting a sex toy business based around 3D printing is quite possible! You just need a unique design and you can begin churning out fresh dildos.
However, you don’t need access to a 3D printer if you want to make a sex toy. Get a silicone penis casting kit and mold your own dildo!
To Sum Up
To try different things and experiment with sex toys is to care about your own sexuality. Whether you make your own sex toy or use whatever’s at hand, it’s crucial to stay mindful of health concerns.
Don’t be afraid to change up your routine so long as you’re comfortable with what you’re about to do.